MATEFO KOLOKO | MY VITILIGO CAMPAIGN
Photography by Baveesha Photography
Story by Baveesha Naran
Story by Baveesha Naran
So you all know I have a new found passion for mountain biking, I never thought that a trail would ever lead me to my next Vitiligo story. This story is so exciting for me… here goes :
As I was riding in the beautiful trails of Kroonstad... I
came across a young lady washing dishes with her mum outside, in the sun. I
spotted from a distance that she had vitiligo, this intrigued me and I rode
towards her. When I got there, I introduced myself... She was so beautiful, a
smile of perfection, she had this cute patch of Vitiligo in the middle of her
forehead, from which her hair also had a streak of blond hair. Total
cuteness, it suited her so well. She,
like myself, also had Vitiligo on her legs.
I began telling her that i too have Vitiligo...
and lift my cycling tights to show her. She was so shocked and excited. She just shouted "WOW, you have it too". I ask her if
she's comfortable with her vitiligo and does she wear shorts and dresses. She
smile and said... "No I can never" I only show them at home. I can't
show them anywhere else." I felt this sadness as I knew first hand what
she’s going through. I told her all about LOVEauthentic, and what we are trying
to do. I explained that we were trying
to raise awareness to help those that are struggling with accepting themselves.
I showed her pics of Alvina, Wayne and Preshiela, this excited her so
much. I told her that I'll be going to lunch once i was done with the trail and
asked if she’d like to join me. She agreed, this left me so excited. I hurried
back, so I could pick her up.
Before we went for lunch, I asked her if she
wanted me to do a shoot of her... she was excited. Since we both didn't have
shorts, and I didn’t want her feeling conscious... I suggested that we both
lift our track pants. The magic began thereafter... we both just laughed as we
did this. I took pics of her and showed her how stunning she looked. She mentioned that
she also had Vitiligo on her stomach, I asked if she was willing to take a pic of
it... she said "yes yes". And then came one of my favourite pics (below). We were both so
thrilled, I clicked away for an hour. During the shoot I asked if she was ok?
Does she feel conscious? She said “no..
I feel great because you here.”
What a beautiful moment... so blessed I've been.
What a beautiful moment... so blessed I've been.
We then headed for lunch. I shared my story,
told her how I battled to accept my Vitiligo, I lived in fear for so long, how
I thought people would judge me. I than told her all about the first day I wore
my shorts. How it felt like true freedom. How it made me realize that I'm
missing out on life. I asked if she's considered ever showing off her vitiligo.
She just laughed... and looked at me like i was crazy. Like that possibility was
not an option. I could feel the pain hidden behind her laughter. I had been
there, I remember thinking I was cursed and hated my life. I said, " my beautiful angel, you're so special,
you're so gorgeous, I waited 31 years before I started living proudly with my
vitiligo. Ever since I took that step, my life has changed for the
better.... I'm so happy and free now. Please my friend, you're 21 now, don't
wait until you're 30. I can help you through this, because i've done it
through small baby steps. When u ready... let's talk about it and start
slowly... one step at a time. I know you can do this. We met so I can help
you." .. she smiled and we shared a huge hug.
Wow and that was my day with Matefo Koloko. Will remember it forever.
The next day she called me. She was ecstatic, she told me that she had told everyone about us meeting. Everyone's so jealous that they weren't around. She thanked me for coming through and meeting her. At the end she said, "thank you and I love you so much".
That brought me to tears. I knew at that moment that we had started LOVEauthentic for this exact reason. To help all those struggling out there...
A month later I contacted Matefo. We caught up and eventually I asked her, when she was going to wear her shorts for the first time .... she said, “ you not going believe this, this past weekend I wore a dress to church.” Omg ... we both started screaming with excitement. I couldn't believe what I had heard, we laughed and she told me all about. Sharing in that excitement was so so special. She said I had helped her change life and that she was so grateful. I just cried … this is so BIG. I myself am so grateful to have been able to help.
I would have started this years ago had I known the gravity of its impact on others. Better late than never, though.
BABY steps lead to GIANT leaps … take the first step today.
The next day she called me. She was ecstatic, she told me that she had told everyone about us meeting. Everyone's so jealous that they weren't around. She thanked me for coming through and meeting her. At the end she said, "thank you and I love you so much".
That brought me to tears. I knew at that moment that we had started LOVEauthentic for this exact reason. To help all those struggling out there...
A month later I contacted Matefo. We caught up and eventually I asked her, when she was going to wear her shorts for the first time .... she said, “ you not going believe this, this past weekend I wore a dress to church.” Omg ... we both started screaming with excitement. I couldn't believe what I had heard, we laughed and she told me all about. Sharing in that excitement was so so special. She said I had helped her change life and that she was so grateful. I just cried … this is so BIG. I myself am so grateful to have been able to help.
I would have started this years ago had I known the gravity of its impact on others. Better late than never, though.
BABY steps lead to GIANT leaps … take the first step today.
